It's not easy to be a family which does *not* celebrate Christmas. When we are out in public during the latter days of December (i.e. after Christmas) it often occurs that kind, well-intentioned strangers will ask my older son what he got for Christmas. You should see the looks of incredulity, perplexity and slight horror on their faces when he answers with a funny grin, "I got nothing for Christmas." They look back and forth from his face to mine, having trouble imagining how this could be so. I smile sweetly (to cover my slight grimace) and confirm that, indeed, we do not celebrate Christmas. A look of pity creeps into the faces of these strangers when I tell them that, instead of Christmas, we celebrate Hanukkah. I always walk away from these exchanges marveling at the assumption that everyone in the world celebrates Christmas and that any child who lacks a Christmas Tree must surely be deprived. Please don't misunderstand me here. I love Christmas and the beautiful story of the nativity. I enjoy seeing all the decorations, learning about the family traditions of our friends and watching the
Nutcracker performed by the
San Francisco Ballet. But, neither my husband nor I were raised celebrating Christmas and we don't celebrate Christmas in our own home now. While we may love it, it's simply not our holiday.
The thing is, bombarded by over-commercialized glitz, omnipresent through the month of December, my older son used to really want to celebrate Christmas (and yes! the bombardment of over-commercialized glitz can be a problem even for families celebrating Christmas!) It did not matter how many candles we lit or how many lovely gifts he received, our little Mr. still wanted Christmas (or a commercialized idea of Christmas) until we got some really great Hanukkah books. It was the magic of these books which brought magic to our own family celebrations.
Our first and foremost favorite Hanukkah book is
Herschel and the Hanukkah Goblins by Eric Kimmel. What's not to love? A spooky, abandoned house, a passel of creepy goblins and a very clever fellow who outwits the goblins and lights the glowing candles of Hannukah...
Our next favorite is ZigaZak, also by Eric Kimmel (more naughty goblins!)
And then there's this delightful story -- the Chanukkah Guest (thanks again, Eric Kimmel!)
For a bit of good natured humor there's The Best Hanukkah Ever by Barbara Diamond Goldin...
And also this clever book -- Malke's Secret Recipe by David A. Adler.
The newest addition to our Hanukkah book collection,
The Latke Who Couldn't Stop Screaming by Lemony Snicket, is seriously irreverent!
And finally, a story which is not necessarily for Hanukkah, but so beautiful that I had to share it --
The Treasure By Uri Shulevitz.