The NY Times published this piece by Ms. Jolie two months ago, and I have spent the past two months thinking about it. Yes, it has taken me a while to write this post.
You see, I too have a BRCA genetic mutation, passed down to me through my mother, and nine years ago I underwent surgeries similar to those Ms. Jolie discusses. During the time of my surgeries, I had the support of most family & friends, but there were a few who insisted my choice was a radical one. These several family members & friends suggested I monitor, meditate, sniff magic aromatherapy oils, etc... Nine years ago, there was no movie star paving the way to help people understand and validate the choice I had made.
I am very grateful to live in an era when I can take a blood test to detect this genetic mutation and then choose to have surgeries to minimize my risk. The surgeries are long behind me now, but there are still repercussions and ramifications which lead me to write blog posts like this one here.
Thinking about the piece written by Ms. Jolie, what I like most about it is this: she wrote, "I can tell my children that they don’t need to fear they will lose me to breast cancer," and this is the same thing I tell my children. Is there any better reason to undergo testing and surgeries than to stay healthy and alive for one's children? That's why she did it, and that's why I did it, too.
Thank you, Angelina Jolie, for helping women who are faced with a diagnosis of the BRCA genetic mutation. Thank you for paving the way and validating difficult choices.
You are a beautiful, bold and brave woman - it is my delight to call you my friend and it gives me great comfort to know you will not die from breast cancer... i cannot even begin to imagine the comfort it brings you when you hold your children close xx
ReplyDeleteGood on you brave lady, selfless thinking of your children a wonderful gift you have given them to make sure they won't lose there awesome mum to breast cancer big hugs from.the Uk xxxc
ReplyDeleteGenetics are powerful and should not be underestimated (in my opinion) :). We all face difficult decisions at some point and we all want to do the right/best thing. And we may choose differently. But what magic if we held each other in kindness :)
ReplyDeleteWishing you many long, wonderful years! :)